An Attitude of Gratitude – Lessons from my Daughter
I wrote this post one year ago, in March 2015, following my daughter’s skiing accident – it has been my most viewed post on LinkedIn…
Here is the original post, with a recent update at the bottom:
An Attitude of Gratitude
Recently my 10-year old daughter fell while skiing in Italy, fracturing 4 vertebrae. Thankfully she is making a good recovery. We are incredibly grateful to all the rescue and emergency personnel and health professionals that treated her.
During our week-long stay in the hospital I was overwhelmed by the kindness of strangers and by the incredible resilience of this young girl. I wanted to capture a few thoughts before they disappeared with the passing of time…
It was a great reminder of how much difference little things, small gestures, kind thoughts and words can make – the offer of a bottle of water, some biscuits, the use of a phone charger, a squeeze of toothpaste…
My daughter took the whole experience in her stride, showed me how to be a model patient and decided to use this as a learning experience. We kept track of things we’d learned and that we were thankful for – that she likes kiwi fruit, a handful of new Italian words… We learned that the presence or absence of (under)pants can produce tears of laughter (I guess you had to be there…) or of frustration.
“Life is a grindstone and whether it grinds you down or polishes you up is for you and you alone to decide”
– Cavett Robert
I would like to thank all of the medical professionals and all of the fellow patients and assorted others that made this very stressful time more pleasant. Thank you to everyone who patiently tried to follow my desperate attempts at communication (my mangled Italian phrases must have been painful to the ears!), to those who shared toiletries, chocolate, biscuits, and to the farmer who appeared (seemingly) out of nowhere to rescue our ambulance when it got stuck on an icy bend in the mountains. And thank you of course to my awesome daughter – I am honoured to have you in my life.
An Attitude of Gratitude – One Year On…
We have just returned from a successful week’s skiing in Italy where my daughter (pictured) ‘got back on the horse’ (skis).
The last year has given us plenty of reasons to have an attitude of gratitude; my daughter has made a complete recovery.
Thanks to everyone for their concern and support, from family and friends to people we met in Italy last year who have kept in touch.
It has been especially wonderful to see how kind and thoughtful her friends are (organising extra activities for her to take part in when she couldn’t take part in regular birthday party activities, forming a human shield around her so that she could walk to the picnic bench and enjoy some fresh air at break without being knocked or bumped, checking in with her every day while she was on the latest ski trip…)
What are you grateful for?
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